The Channel 4 adverts for the Paralympics are brilliant. They have also been showing little vignettes about the sport called Meet the Paralympians, which are excellent. You can catch these on YouTube. But also I must to say that Eddie Marsan (who I thought was OK, but not that good), is superb as Dr Ludwig Guttman in
The Best of Men... As is Rob Brydon. Someone implied elsewhere that my reaction to these guys and girls was that of pity; there may be some of that, but there is infinitely more admiration, the feeling you get when you see human beings overcome disadvantage to succeed and also that in every essential way they are people we need to emulate, who inspire me, at least. What they do affirms all of us in our humanity.
But you have to be my age to realise just how the public's attitude to disability or deformity has come. We aren't there yet, us theoretically normal people, but we are a lot further than in the 1950s when we would be told not to touch or be near anyone with a disability. "They ought to be locked up" and that from a sensible, otherwise pleasant middle-aged working class Mum. At the back of the comment was a kind of shibboleth, a superstition that if her children touched the afflicted one, then they would somehow become infected. I am happy that that is no longer as bad.
In France, though, with hunchbacks it is different. A friend of mine loved going to France as all the pretty girls wanted to touch his back for luck. This please him no end, but not so much his wife!
Apart from Mrs Williams... a very Welsh (coincidentally), very nasty piece of work who flat out accused my mother of killing my grandfather*. I painted BUM on her perfectly manicured front garden in weedkiller. It was quite small so I had to keep the number of letters down. And it worked quite effectively. I think my Mum and Dad guessed it was me, but although I heard the old harpy complaining to them about their evil kids, all that happened was I got an extra ice cream!
*For those that keep track of my ramblings, this was Pink Grandad. A tremendous, Olympian figure who enlisted at the start of the Great War and was eventually invalided out at the end of 1917; I know he was at the first battle of the Somme, so how any of us that descend from him (three at current count) did so is a miracle. When he fell down the stairs and died, they had to do an autopsy, as they do with all sudden deaths. Apart from being mostly deaf and completely blind, the poor old fellow had been gassed, and subjected to all the diseases of the Western Front. His heart gave out in the fall, but these never actually fully left him and one of the things they found was the Bubonic Plague. You could not make this up. He was bloody tough.